Is Change Such a Bad Thing?
Change as many say is not constant. It comes in many different ways and it is multi-faceted. Just the thought of change brings in so many emotions ranging from fear to exteme joy. We are worried because we are unsure of the circumstances of what might happen after the change. We are also afraid of the unknown that may arise as a result of the change.
What we are unaware of is the fact that all of our everyday actions and intentions effect change. However, being afraid of change doesn’t mean change is bad. It may seem frightening in the beginning but turns out later to be the best thing that could ever happen to you.
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It has been a while that you haven’t read and/or heard from me. I have starved many of you who have been following me. I have been asked by many what is going on. Some of my friends think I’m pregnant with baby number 3 😊…well you wouldn’t be best friends with my hubby 😂.
Many things have happened during my long absence and nothing bad actually happened. I have been struggling to manage and deal with change. Where do I start? Let me see…
Moving home is one of the most stressful changes in life especially when you’ve got kids. You are happy and excited in the beginning when you succeed to find a home you want to grow old and raise your kids. Once you’ve signed all the paperwork and pick up the keys….your worries begin. The boxes you need to pack, the bills you got to sort out, redirecting your mails, the moving van etc etc….
The worse of all is the post relocation blues that comes about after this change in your life. This is one of the most difficult part of moving home.
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After all the excitement and unpacking wears down, you have this ‘little devil’ tickling you from inside reminding you about your old life. In that old life, you enjoyed the daily routine which must have been comforting, the moments with friends which remain unforgettable, your job and so on. You mourn your old life which you can no longer bring back during this period while ushering in the new life.
The new life is back. I am back and this post is to thank all my readers for bearing with me while I was dealing with a significant and wonderful change in my life. I am slowly getting back into my old routine which I’ve missed so much.
I’m looking forward to catching up with my existing audience while making new ones. I am doing great in my new town. I’ve got amazing neighbours, the kids have settled in school and are making new friends, the neighborhood is becoming more and more lovely and amazing while we explore to get to know our way around.
Thanks for your patience, I am back for good! I’ll try publish a new article atleast once a week while slowly building my momentum back to my old ways of one new article a day!!
Don’t hesitate to share with us some changes in your life that you thought won’t be nice but ended up making you more happier.
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